Get in the right mindset.
Just like any other sort of orgasm, getting out of your own head is key to achieving a Porn Peru anal orgasm. If you’re running a script in your mind about the pain you’re going to experience during anal sex, then that’s probably exactly how you will experience it.
Remember that you have power over your pleasure and over your anus, so be conscious of how your anus is responding to your partner’s touches and control the relaxation of your anal sphincter muscles by relaxing. The more you can release the idea of your anus being a forbidden, dirty place, the easier it will be to relax into the pleasure of anal stimulation without shame.
Lube is your lifeline—and so essential!
Any sort of anal penetration will not be enjoyable without any sort of lubrication. When you think you’ve used enough, add a little more! The booty doesn’t produce any lube on its own. And lube not only protects you from irritation and small tears, it also heightens the sensation from every lick, stroke, and thrust like in Porn Peru videos.
So how do you go about applying the lube to your anal area? Insert lube into the anus using a lube tube, or apply the lubricant to the outside of the anus and onto the surface of your toy or partner’s peen.
Start by practicing with fingers and finger-sized toys.
When it comes to anal penetration, it’s best to start small. Use fingers and toys that are ‘finger width’ to introduce stimulation to the anus. Sometimes friction on the opening of the anus can be enough to produce orgasms.
Massaging the anus with the tip of any finger (index or thumbs are typical) creates ease in being penetrated without the idea of having to receive the fullness of your partner’s girth. More fingers can be added if you feel you’re ready for more pressure.
Communicate with your partner.
Communication is the key to pretty much everything, and anal sex is no exception. Be vocal about what you are feeling and what you need. As the person being penetrated, you should be communicating often since your partner can not feel what you are experiencing. So, if something feels uncomfortable, let it be known in a gentle way. Make requests of your partner and be patient because anal penetration can take some time to get it right.
Consider saying things like “can you ease in more slowly please?” and insists that mustering the courage to be vocal about your desires is key in achieving orgasm. The more you speak up and ask for what you need, the more empowered you will feel over your body. With empowerment comes liberation and the ability to RELAX into the decisions you’re making knowing that your safety is pleasure is being placed as a priority.
